I'm turning 40 soon; entitled to a couple of dictums, no?
- Bubbles are always fun. Maybe less so if you are manipulating the event for photographic purposes, but still guaranteed fun.
- Most of what makes us hard to work with, live with, holiday with, is us trying to meet our legitimate needs for worth. Don't question my skill, my opinion, my parenting, my fashion, my politics, my pigeon racing: it's why I feel valuable. In essence: "What's driving you mad is keeping them sane". I admit, I totally stole that from someone else, but isn't it right?!

